Category: Let's talk
like there persinallity and there apirance and stuff
hmm, I look in for a person their personality as well.
personality, honesty, respect for themselves and others, and trust.
well that's goblin out lol!
Someone with trustworthiness, intelligence, caring, respect for self and others, and an ability to make me smile.
Leilani
that's insaole 1987 for sure
Are we talking merely romance here or just anything social? I dunno. I find I'm pickier about the peple I want to connect with as I get older, and I'm older than most Zoners. I want to find people who are fairly like-minded and share a few of my interests at least. It is getting harder for me to put up with really extreme idealism and I tend to go for more realistic people. I love a sarcastic and irreverent attitude toward life where little to nothing is sacred. I also find I have no use for people whose lives are nothing but drama and tragedy, most of it their own making. I know some folks can't help this and I can accomodate, but in my past it seems I attracted the emotionallly needy because I tend to be kind to people unles or until they show me reason not to be so nice. LOL!
Wow Stargate, thanks *smiles*. I am looking for someone who can listen to someone, who understands but has still a good sense of humour and is patient with me.
That they be intelligent, and have a sense of humor. Also, that they be kind to others is pretty high in there too.
I agree, kindness is very necesary.
Well, let's see ... I love sarcasm and dark humor, so naturally, anyone who likes those things too won't have a problem getting along with me. Um, I also look for intelligence and kindness, honesty and integrity, open-mindedness and self-respect. I figure if you've got respect for yourself,it's easy enough to have respect for others, or at least treat others the way you want to be treated, right?
That's true Ally.
you can't fail!
*smiles*, well, I think I can.
I look for honesty, trustworvyness, similar interests as myself, maturity and reasonable levels of rationality.
stargate that cheap jibe shows the extremely high level of your childishness......
Personally I rate confidence very highly, if a person is sure of themselves, they will be strong and able to cope with whatever life throws at them. A good sense of humour..patience...a sense of adventure an appreciation of nature and the outdoors..tolerance of my capricous temperament..and eh a willingness to try something out of the ordinary
That was not really kind, but well ...
who wasn't kind?
me or goblin
Goblin of course *smiles*:
two faced eejit you deserve to suffer and to think I gave you good advice which you listened to and accepted, F..ck you Insele,you have just shown your true colours
A person who is sure of themselves doesn't take so personally criticism from people who they've never met.
Well that#s true though.
I cannot stand blatant two faced hypocrisy, from a numpty, who I tried to advise in a very difficult situation..how feckin christian of you Insele eh?
what I look or is someone with a good sense o humour and a somewhat sick one at times. An preciation of language and culture, kindness and a willingness to try new things sometimes. Also someone with a healthy work drive. And, I've found them! smile, points at inees...
*smiles*, thank you!!
Aren't we easily pleased
Well it#s better than a person who is impossible to please!!
Quality not quantity dear..Also I don't need to lose myself in a crowd to feel wanted and accepted..isn't that why you chose religion...hmm?, to feel you belong somewhere you can hide within christianity, and delude yourself, that these vaccuous eejits really truly care about you...I have my inner strength and no matter what has happened, and believe me, you haven't heard the 1/2 of it..I have never felt the need to lie to myself like that..If you believe in yourself you are twice as strong as if you don't ...one day Insele you might just wake up and realise this...
Quality not quantity dear..Also I don't need to lose myself in a crowd to feel wanted and accepted..isn't that why you chose religion...hmm?, to feel you belong somewhere you can hide within christianity, and delude yourself, that these vaccuous eejits really truly care about you...I have my inner strength and no matter what has happened, and believe me, you haven't heard the 1/2 of it..I have never felt the need to lie to myself like that..If you believe in yourself you are twice as strong as if you don't ...one day Insele you might just wake up and realise this...
Lou why on earth should I waste my time on here crawling up a thoroughally unpleasant individual's arse,just so people who seem unable to tolerate a strong opinion,engage me in conversation ..honestly, where do you think we are man the seriously repressed 1940's! Get a grip and quick..Maybe crawling works for you but I intend to hang on to my dignity and self respect...
Well there is a way to talk kinder but still honest, and not attacking other's post.
what on earth is going here?
ohhh thats good Insele one minute your being nice, then your deliberately 2 faced, then your Mother Theresa again. Make up your mind eh or people might suspect you of a having a split personality...
Personality, honesty, trust, caring, things in common...